You may already know that my mom died unexpectedly in September 2017. My family and I, who were present in the hospital, were asked if we wanted to see her in the room where she died. Unfortunately, because she died shortly after her arrival at the hospital, there should be an investigation, and therefore the breathing tube that was placed in her mouth was unable to fade in her throat. This means that when I visited it with my aunt and aunt, it was not comfortable It looked as if it were sleepingA moment that many people describe. It was a memory that was inhabited and bothered me.
My mother’s funeral was almost a month after her death, and as she wanted to burn her, I knew that the time between leaving the criminal investigating judge, and her funeral day will be the last opportunity that I had to see my mother again. The woman who raised me and who spoke to her almost every 30 -year -old. My entire family was shocked by her sudden death, and no one else wanted to visit her in the comfort chapel because they were unable to confront him. To save anyone else from the pressure of being forced to take me there and wait outside (which many relatives and friends), I jumped on a train and went to visit her alone.
My mom had died for nearly a month at this stage, and death did things for a human body in a very short period of time. When I entered the room where my mother lying in her coffin, there was a great frown on her face that I had never seen before. I know that this is because of the way the funeral manager makes watching our friends and relatives who died from the mouth provided by death, but he was still alarming. When I got the train to the house, I sat on my own and cried on the entire trip to the house. It is very embarrassing in a train in Britain, because everyone pretends to be there.
I replaced the frowning on my mom’s breathing tube in the ideas that refused to leave my head while I was sad, and it was very difficult.
Then, several months after my mother’s funeral, I bought the second Caitlin Doughty book From here forever Ketlin visits different societies in different global cultures to learn how people deal with death in different ways. I don’t want to spoil any of the great things that Caitlin writes about, but it is a really great reading. Strangely, this helped me find a closure from my trip to the comfort chapel. Because I realized that the way my mother’s body reaction to death was normal and natural. If I entered the room, I would find it relaxed like radioactive white snow after the garbage, that was actually more concerned for me in the long run. It was not a testament to the battle that my mother presented in her last days, and she would have toured her death and this was not fair to her. When I realized that, I was eased from this burden, and after that I managed to find comfort when I thought about returning to that room with my mother, touching her hair for the last time and saying my last farewell to her.
From here forever Help me find the closure and acceptance in which many books failed to be sad. After reading it, my interest in life, death and culture surrounding it was re -formulated. Reading some of the ways people around the world lived and their deaths made me see something completely beautiful in the frowning that was chasing me for a long time. You must buy the book.
I decided that if I returned as a ghost when I die, I will chase Mexico. The ghost appears to be welcome there.
