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Podcasts have been blocked and public talks have been in one way or another since my early twenties. I am a skeptical paranormal researcher in superpowers and plows many people. I am also a very special woman who also disturbs many people. In the contract (the nest), which has passed since I started blogging for the first time, it has faced the anger of many of the communications and I mean people online. There are a lot of advice provided to young women on how to deal with this, but here what I learned …
Nobody can prepare you for the misuse you may get.
People can tell you that putting your opinions and thoughts there will attract the best and the worst people, but they cannot always tell you how to deal with them. Some will tell you about ignoring those who send you messages or comments online. By not involving them, you were told that they will disappear or tire of being terrible. Others will tell you thatSunlight in the best antiseptic“By responding, publishing and sharing the harassment you receive, you will be ashamed of people in silence, or show that you cannot intimidate you.
What I found, however, is that it is a little of the rituals that work. I mean, it’s tired enough to read terrible messages in the first place – but after doing this in these many years, I think I have developed thicker skin. Fortunately for me, I have never received the threats of rape or killing, the worst that I dealt with is the threats of violence, the people trying to read, and follow it at home (yes … lucky to me …)
Sometimes, you have to make fun of magma
What I am doing now is to read messages and comments and determine whether it is worth a response. It is easy to reach the deletion button, mute or ban and forget about this person who tried to interact with me at all, but sometimes … sometimes it is worth the challenge or mockery, and for this reason it is possible that you coincide with many comments subjects that I use with experience in using satirical or GIFs.
When you are hunting, sometimes you have to return more strongly. Nobody deserves to be respected automatically, especially if he is offensive or rude.
Take threats or harassment seriously
As I mentioned before, I followed me at home what I think was one of my harassment on the Internet. There were three occasions in the past that had to involve the police with regard to threats or behavior, and fortunately, the police were great in dealing with cases.
When people tell you to ignore harassment, they are usually a goodwill advice, but sometimes you need to ignore the advice to ignore the harassment and confidence in your feeling of waves if you think something you don’t feel good or makes you feel insecure. Even if the law is not technically broken, you can still talk to the police about what has been said or threatened and they can register your concern – in this way, if you rise, you have already got a file with them about the situation and you are likely to get a faster response if the situation develops.
Own your high land
There is nothing that anyone can tell me that I did not really say to myself because I was a teenage girl. However, people will try because people who cannot meet your opinions or data with a logical debate will attack instead You It will aim for things they think will harm you more. The best way to respond to this behavior is to realize that this is a logical fallacy called To a person (Which is almost translated into the “person”), and only people who have weak arguments will resort to this tactic. They often do not realize that they do it and how they appear to discuss from a weak situation. Once someone begins to attack you instead of your argument, you can safely assume that it is good to ignore it.
You deserve to hear
When you are someone, especially a woman – people often tell you that you must preserve your opinions and thoughts for yourself. Don’t let anyone try to convince you that you must be silent. In the twenty -first century, it is easy for anyone to say his article and hear, and if you have something you say and want to say that, say that.
However, no one He has To listen to you or take you seriously, but at the same time no one has the right to tell you to be calm because they do not agree with you or feel insulting because of what you said. If a person is insulted and did not deliberately (or even if you have), this is a shame for them, but this does not prevent them from your silence or apologies.
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