I have been looking for extraordinary claims for nearly 16 years or so. The most important lesson I learned about death is that people do not like to think about it.
Ian sample (2019) recently wrote about the Guardian that our brains seem to protect us from existential fear by dropping death as something that affects others but not for us. The sample was discussing the research conducted by Yerrman, at Bar Elan University in Israel who monitored the brain’s activity of people watching pictures of people along with death words.
The sample writes that “(1) in the non -distant past … our brain defenses against death ideas were balanced through the reality of death around us. Today … society is more phobia, where patients are limited to hospitals and the elderly to care for the role of interest.” Among the research conducted at the University of Bar Ilan, the sample says, “(R) The scientists found that if the person’s face flashes next to the deadly words, their brain closes the prediction system. She refused to link the self to death and sudden signals have been recorded.” The researchers suggested that “we protect ourselves from existential threats, or think consciously about the idea that we will die, by closing self -predictions, or classifying information as about other people instead of ourselves” (sample, 2019).
In a 2016 study through the death of matters, 15 % of the respondents said they did not talk about their death because they were afraid to harm them. Another of their studies found that only 21 % of the adult respondents spoke to someone about their protruding desires. This is about a fifth of the population! Elsewhere, a study conducted by the subcommittee was found that 46 % of parents did not exceed any plans on caring for their children if they died. 1 out of 6 people who answered they could not face the discussion (Laws, 2018).
Death is a frightening concept, but this is the only thing that we all guarantee in life. Regardless of where you live, or who loves, and the extent of wealth or poor, we will all die. As a paranormal researcher, I communicate with people with experiences they think may have been a ghost. Some of these people are interested in what happened, but for most of the eye witnesses who call me, they are looking for a kind of validity. If the researcher is not able to explain his suspicious meeting, this must mean that it is likely that the health of survival is possible after death, right?
Well, no … but this is out of my will because I only tell people what I think about their case and I never guarantee that I am able to solve every case. There is no explanation that does not mean that there is no one. It is an unspeakable interpreter. However, I do not jump into a conclusion that does not prevent others from doing this, and when this usually happens, it is because the person who had a strange experience needs to believe that death is not the end.
This can be seen reflected in the fixed number of people who mention that they believe in ghosts and also think they have faced them. It is usually about half of the population. In the period leading up to Halloween 2019, the Yougov polling company stated that a recent study found that nearly half of the Americans believe in ghosts and demons (Ballard, 2019).
I think it is really important to embrace and accept your deaths, regardless of whether you believe in something or not. I know that the majority of the people who read my blog believe in life after death, but I still think it is important to live our lives here and now. Death comes to all of us and does not guarantee the afterlife.
If your faith in such a thing is fixed and you have absolutely no doubt that ghosts are real and that you will continue to exist after your death, then what you have is faith, and faith is based on hope instead of reality. The fact is that we die and our bones become dust. We die and live memories from us in those around us, and our legacy lives in the measures that we choose to take while we are alive.
A ghost researcher does not confirm faith in the afterlife, not always a welcome person. Believe me, I know. I was a target of anger from the witnesses of the eyes who did not want to hear my alternative interpretations of their frightening confrontations (although they were the ones who asked me). They have their belief that after they take their last breath, their lives will continue in their session – as a ghost, or another dimension or the like. Listening to me means having to think about opposing ideas and facts, and as the research that was discussed above showed, we do not want to think about our deaths.
However, the uncomfortable truth is that you die, rot, and this may be much. I don’t think this is satisfactory, I think there is beauty in it, and this is to deny this is to deceive ourselves to believe that we are outside this basic life cycle. We are not, and this is what makes life very wonderful and vital.
Our time here is limited but precious and Which – which It is the important lesson about the life that you learned as a ghost researcher.
Reference
Ballard, J (2019) ’45 % of Americans believe that ghosts and demons exist “, Yougov, October 21, 2019, (online) is available on: https://tode.yougov.com/topics (10/27/19)
Laws, P (2018) “hide bodies” in Fear: Why do we love monsters, ghosts, death and wound?London, Icon Books Ltd P.85-86
Sample, I. (2019) ‘Death suspicion: How to protect our brains from the deadly truth?Those19 October 2019,
(Online) is available on: https://www.theguardian.com/science/2019/oCT/19/doubting-fEth-how-ur-brains-shield-us-footh-mortal-truth. (10/27/19)
